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Today is Saturday morning January 23rd. I am slowly approaching to two months point since my arrival to Russia. It is amazing how fast time flies especially when your schedule is absolutely packed. I will give you an idea what I mean by being packed.


On Monday I have to buy clothes for Arthur who is an orphan in Kingisep. Kingisep is a small town in the suburbs of St. Pete about two hour drive toward Estonia. Arthur is a brother of Max. Max lives in America because he was adopted four years ago. Unfortunately brothers were separated and Max has not seen his two other brothers for a long time. Arthur and George lived in the basements in the city of St. Pete for over two years before they were rescued by the police and placed into the orphanage. Max and his parents asked me to visit Arthur while I am in Russia. Max sacrificed all of his savings so that I can buy something for Arthur.


Then I have two classes at our Vocational Training Center. As of this week I am teaching two additional classes, but this time to our residents: Igor, Anya and Natasha. Igor is taking computer and English and the girls are taking computer only. Observation point: many orphans feel very confident about their skills and knowledge, but if you test them you will find out that they do not even know basic stuff. They frequently request to learn some challenging programs yet they cannot even handle simple stuff. Thus, I have decided to teach basic knowledge prior to teaching more complicated one. Of course, they complain so I have to explain why I am taking such approach (i.e. before you take Algebra you need to know arithmetic).


My final task for Monday is to check out potential apartment for our Vocational Training Center in the evening. Please pray for that meeting because we need to find something different before my departure.


On Tuesday, Thursday and Friday I will be working with Rick and Jane. This couple has been coming to Russia for nine years. The purpose of their travel is to minister to orphans. They have asked me to be their translator. We will be ministering at the orphanage 8 & 13. Rick and Jane have prepared “God’s Plan for Me” lesson. Please pray for the presence of the Holy Spirit and for the lives to be transformed. One of the reasons why I have agreed to minister with them because currently The Harbor is looking for new residents and VTC participants and I think this might be a great opportunity for me to establish new connection and build the relationship with orphans. It could also be a possibility where we can select orphans so that we can continue to support, encourage and transform their lives. Another reason why I have agreed is because I have known Rick and Jane for a few years and greatly support their cause and want to be part of it because we can reach one life at a time.


On Wednesday I will be going to Kingisep to visit Arthur. I hope to build the relationship with him and the orphanage director. Arthur is seventeen years old and he is an eighth grader. This is a huge challenge for him because he is the oldest in the class and it creates an emotional pressure for him. Due to this pressure Arthur is having a difficult time in trying to complete his nine grades so I am going to encourage and challenge him to stay on target. Furthermore, I am going to share about The Harbor and see if he is interested to possibly coming to our ministry a year from now. If he decides to come this will create some challenges for us because he is in the suburb orphanage and according to the law orphans from suburb orphanages typically have to stay in the suburb where they attend school, work and live. However, in the past seven and a half years we have had some orphans from suburb orphanages so we are open to the challenge. Please pray for Arthur, my visit, his school and successful completion, potential partnership with The Harbor and Arthur possibly coming to our ministry.


On Saturday I am teaching classes at VTC all day long. This Saturday I am going to try teaching new material. In the past seven weeks I have been teaching PC user skills and Word processing. I have tested some of their knowledge & they have somewhat passed it. The morning group is somewhat challenging because when they come to VTC the first thing they ask, “Alex, when can we play video games?” My standard reply is at the end of the class. This shows that their primary focus coming to computer class is to play games. They are so bored in learning Word processing and constantly asking to learn something different and more challenging, yet they cannot even handle simple stuff. The morning group comes from “norm” orphanage whereas the evening group comes from special needs orphanage. However, I see a huge difference in two groups. The evening group constantly wants to burn music from CDs onto their MP3 players or cell phones, but they are a lot more active during the class. They are motivated and interested in learning the material and some of them work really hard at it. The contrast I see that we have young adults who are “norm” and others are academically challenged. The “norm” are lazy and do not want to do anything whereas academically challenged are motivated and committed.


I have to give credit to both groups that they do respect, listen and obey me. Frequently they say something inappropriate like cussing or swearing and I point that out and they apologize, which is huge because most orphans in the orphanages do not care and this is their form of communicating with each other. Actually it is very Russian to cuss and swear, which makes me sick. When I walk on the streets I hear different conversations and it goes like, “Hello Roma …good…” I am sure you will figure out what I mean by …. . This is so sad to me when I hear young, middle and old age people speak like that. Another thing I have noticed with both groups that orphans have connected with me especially the evening group, which is huge because they have known me for only seven weeks. I thank and praise the Lord. I have been thinking of making separate trips to both orphanages during the week to visit orphans and build deeper and closer relationship. As you know it is all about building the relationship. Please pray for our VTC young adult orphans that come to us on Saturdays and The Harbor residents and graduates that come to VTC during the week.


On Sunday I will be going to a church. I am saying to a church because I am not sure which one yet. Since I have arrived I have not found one church that I like or prefer to go to so I am checking out different churches. In seven weeks I have gone to following churches: Nazarene, South and Central Calvary, Good News and Harvest. I would like to visit International Assembly, All Nations, 21st Century, and a few other churches. Some of you might think I am crazy because I am church hopping or as my Ohio family says “church schizophrenic”. Well, the most important of all that as I seek “the right church” I should be well fed spiritually and fellowship with my brothers and sisters in Christ, which is the case. I am continuing to have quiet times in the morning, but not every morning. This is my struggle being in Russia and having my plate full. Thus, I am challenging myself and working really hard so that God stays the center of my life. It is His ministry not mine so He must be the priority to me. Please pray for my spiritual walk especially in the country like Russia, which is dark in many ways and many people are far away from God.


I realize it is January 23rd, which is way passed the New Year and Christmas celebration, but I still want to share with you how we celebrated Christmas with our VTC participants from orphanages 14 & 18. It was couple weeks ago when Luba our Russian Director asked me to prepare special Christmas message for the kids. To be honest with you this was somewhat a challenge for me because for the past 15+ years walking with Christ I have done it in English so doing it in Russian is not easy for me. I stayed up until 2 a.m. preparing the message in Russian and I felt good about it. On Saturday morning Jan. 3rd the kids from orphanage 14 came. We first played games then they split into groups and went to different classes. The culinary group prepared a salad and dessert for special Christmas meal. We had a nice meal and during the meal we talked about Christmas and the significance of this holiday. This is where I had to share special message and to our amazement most kids knew the story. At the end we showed them 20 minute video about Christmas and then we presented the gifts. The kids were thrilled because they do not receive gifts that often especially for Christmas because in Russia people exchange gifts for the New Year only.


In the evening a group of 20 kids from the orphanage 18 came. At first I was shocked that they had such big group because typically groups are anywhere from 8-12 kids. This time we decided to change things a little. Luba and Tatiana arranged a skit where kids had to act the entire Christmas story dressed in different costumes. This group had two caregivers with them and Vicka one of the caregivers was actively involved in the skit. She had so much fun playing Martha and it was a blast watching her. The kids enjoyed playing their roles also. The group that went to computer class had to create Christmas cards with a personal message for every person that came that night. It was a blast because different characters pop out in such situations. I had Eugene, Sasha and Igor in the class and they had to make 17 cards in 45 minutes. Eugene chose four people and created their cards with passion and excitement. Sasha was trying, but it was tough because he did not know what to say. Igor was struggling because he just simply was not interested. Before our meal Eugene, Sasha and Igor had to present their cards by reading their Christmas message out loud and that was something. Igor end up creating two cards for his caregivers and one of them was Raisa and the kids are not fond of her so Raisa was shocked that Igor created a card for her also. This was a special moment that they will cherish for a long time. We had a meal and the kids ate everything with great appetite. Then we showed them the same 20 minute video and at the end presented Christmas gifts. They were very thankful, which is huge because appreciation and thankfulness is a foreign concept for most orphans.


Please pray that this Christmas celebration will stay in their hearts and most of all the significance of this holiday. Pray that the power of the Holy Spirit will continue to stir their hearts and the seed that was planted will grow and produce fruit in His time.


There are so many more stories I can share, but I feel this entry is long enough so I am going to stop here. I realize that the lives that are being touched by residential and VTC part of The Harbor is primary thanks to God and you who have been so faithful through prayer and finance. You are making it happen. Please do not think that all you are doing is making financial investments. No, you are making new disciples, transforming the lives of many orphans, storing into the kingdom of God and raising new generation of radical believers who in His time will bear fruit and become living testimony and active leaders in ministering to many more least of these. Thank you for all that you are doing and I hope that one day the Lord will bring you to Russia to see how the lives are being touched and changed.


Blessings,
The Harbor & Alex

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It has been awhile since I have posted anything on my blog. This has been primarily due to very busy schedule. Before I came to Russia I knew that my schedule was going to be busy, but I did not think it was going to be that busy. Typically I come home anywhere between 11 p.m. and midnight, which is late. Then I stay up until 2 a.m. trying to catch up with other stuff (i.e.writing emails, blog, pictures or chatting via Skype.) Yes, I am the one who schedules meetings so you might think why not schedule them in a way so that I have some free time or get more rest. Well, if it was that easy I would do it, but it is not that simple. I am getting used to it. Please pray that my body won't collapse from exhaustion.

I am so happy that Russia is back to normal schedule after two weeks of Christmas vacation. Personally I would never call this Christmas vacation. This is just simply another reason to relax, eat, drink (vodka) and do nothing, which seems very absurd to me nowadays. Now Russians are not super thrilled to go back to work or students back to school. They are dragging their feet and wish they could have another week of vacation.

About a week ago I met an American woman who is in Russia right now on a mission trip. The day after her arrival she was at the church and her purse with the documents, cell phone and other stuff was stolen. It happens to be during the vacation time so it is practically impossible to do anything here especially if you have to deal with the federal government. She went to the police department to get a document stating her situation. Then she went to the U.S. Consulate and they were on vacation; thus, she could not do nothing except to sit and wait until Jan. 11th when everything would resume to normal schedule. Well, her flight back home was on Jan. 12th; thus, she is risking not getting the paper work in order to go home because she needs an exist visa. She waited for Jan. 11th and the federal office was closed. Then her team went back home on Jan. 12th and she stayed in Russia. The Federal Migration Service office was closed on Jan. 12th so she had to wait until Jan. 13th. She went there yesterday and they told her that she would have to sit and wait in Russia for two months while the government is processing the paper work. In reality the U.S. Consulate should have issued her a special letter where she could take that letter to the Russian Consul and get her exist visa without any problems. Well, the U.S. Consulate would not issue that document so she is stuck. Many people have been praying for her and the Lord has answered the prayer partially. A Russian lawyer who knows this lady and has connections came to the Federal Migration Service office and talked to her government friend who told her what needs to done on the state side so that Pam can get her exist visa. Now she is waiting for the paper work to be completed on the state side and faxed to Russia so that she can get her exist visa. Please pray for Pam. She told me yesterday that now she feels like an orphan who has been abandoned by her own country because the U.S. Consulate would not help her.

About a week ago I had a meeting with Lydia and Lenina.



I have known Lenina for almost twenty years and Lydia for ten years. Lenina was a caretaker at the orphanage #51. In addition, she was a caretaker at another orphanage. Prior to that she was the director of a cultural house (old Soviet concept). Cultural house was the place where anyone could come and participate in artistic, vocational or educational classes for free of charge. These houses no longer exists in Russia. She is a smart and well educated woman. In many ways she reminds me of Melana who was my elementary caretaker at the orphanage #51. Lenina deeply cared for her children and tried to do everything that she could so that their life would be different especially after "graduating" from the state system. Unfortunately, majority staff in the orphanages in Russia do not have such heart for the least of these; thus, you become unheard voice and unnoticed figure among your colleagues. Due to Lenina's age and her husband's health condition she was forced to retire. Since her retirement she has been writing different publications about orphans, culture and education. She also has been taking care of her husband who has been battling cancer for quite some time. During our fellowship I asked Lenina how are your "graduate" children from the orphanage doing. She said very bad, which unfortunately the reality for majority "graduate" orphans. I then asked her if she had at least one or two that have become successful and she said no. It breaks my heart that the lives of children have been destroyed and dissolved in the air without being noticed. Lenina has a tender heart and she is open to hear the gospel, but she does not yet know the Lord as her personal Savior. Due to absence of the Lord in her life she feels depressed and hopeless. She is tired and emotionally exhausted. Please pray for Lenina and her spiritual situation. I hope to connect with her again before I leave and talk more about the Lord. Pray that God would open her heart and she would accept Him as her personal Savior.

Lydia is originally from Latvia, but she came to St. Petersburg about forty years ago. She is a strong Christian and came to the orphanage #51 through her church about ten years ago. During her visits she met Lenina and they connected. Lydia visited the orphanage almost weekly helping the children in different ways. She has been introduced to a different life when she came to the orphanage. It is so interesting because most Russians know that there are orphans, but where do they live and how they have no idea because the majority never visit them. Even though Lenina is no longer in the orphanage Lydia still visits orphanages either on her own or through her church or with other friends who are involved in the ministry to orphans. Lydia has also kept in touch with Lenina after her retirement. They meet periodically, which is huge because Lydia always witnesses to Lenina and encourages, which is crucial for Lenina's soul and emotional stability. Lydia has two sons: Sergey who is forty years old and Vanya who is twenty-five years old. She raised her sons in a loving Christian family, but unfortunately the devil is never asleep. Many years ago Lydia divorced her husband and her sons are not really walking with the Lord. Pray for her sons and her former husband Volodya.


In Russia people celebrate Christmas on January 7th. On that day aunt Marina invited me to her house for a meal. The same day I had a phone conference with CRM at 8 p.m. so it was going to be tricky how I was going to come to aunt Marina's home by 5 p.m. eat and be back at my apt. by 8 p.m. for the call. It might not sound that much of a challenge, but remember that I live good one hour+ from aunt Marinas. I came to her house and we sat at the table right away. We had a fabulous meal as usual and let me tell you if I had to eat like that daily then I would become a donut boy that would roll down the city streets and you would never recognize me anymore. We took some pictures because we did not get to do that during the New Year because uncle Misha went to bed. You see aunt Marina was a professional ballerina then she became a ballet teacher; thus, her personality is very artistic and creative. Due to her creativity she has decided to take some very funny photos. I am sure it might be goofy to post such pictures in public, but I am still going to do that and hope that you will have a good laugh of course at my expense. At least we had a lot of fun and it was worth it.

On January 8th we celebrated Christmas with The Harbor residents. We hosted the party at the girls' apt. That morning I went to our boys' apt. to pick up Igor one of our residents to buy some food. Our menu for that night was very different compare to what we have prepared for the previous parties. Luba had asked me to prepare fish because we never have that. I decided to prepare my friend's recipe, which is salmon with prunes in creamy white sauce. It might sound strange especially with prunes in it, but it taste good. Igor is our youngest resident at the moment and he is one of the challenging ones (i.e. he is from a suburb orphanage about 4 hour drive. After he completed his classes at college he had decided to go to his mom's house in the suburbs, but he did not tell Luba. He called her only after he arrived to his mom's home. This is not acceptable at The Harbor because Luba is legally responsible for every resident because if anything were to happen to Igor then Luba could go to jail.) Anyway, Igor and I went to Okey store which is like Wal-Mart. There we bought tons of salmon because we were cooking for 35 people. We also bought disposable dishes and prunes. This store is located about 20 minute walking distance from the girls' apt., but we also had to go to another store to buy more food to prepare mashed potatoes, salads, etc. Thus, Igor and I end up carrying tons of groceries for over an hour in our hands. There is a reason why Russian are well fit because they walk everywhere with tons of groceries in their hands. During our shopping I had a chance to talk to Igor, which was a great opportunity for me to get to know him and build the relationship. It is all about the relationship. We then came to girls' apt. and had to cook. Some girls were still asleep and others were preparing salads. We realized that we could not make the fish because it was too early so Igor sat on the couch for awhile. Then we helped the girls to make Monk's Cap salad, which has different layers. Zena was making the salad and she was funny because she told me that she needs supervision so that she does not mess up, but in reality she needed attention and a company. Here is the photo of the salad.

I was going to take a photo of the fish, but forgot. Instead of making mashed potatoes we made rice. Thus our menu had: vegetarian crab salad, monk's cap salad, Greek salad, salmon with prunes in creamy sauce, white rice, bread, tort, cookies and fruit. Our guest arrived at 6 p.m. and we had about 30-35 people. In the beginning we played games. Some of our residents did acrobatic skits. Then Natasha one of our residents sang a song and played on the guitar. Natasha our psychologist along with Sergei and Maria our mentors did Christmas story skit, which was awesome. Check out the pictures.











Ivan our pastor shared the gospel. At the end we were lighting candles symbolizing the light that Christ has brought into this world. Then we had presents time and white elephant game. Thanks to Rick and Mary who had made all of our Christmas parties a reality for our staff, volunteers, graduates, residents, and training center participants. We are most grateful to them.
I have many more news to share, but this entry is already quite long so I am going to stop for now and will pick up from where I left off.
Thank you for the prayer support, love, care and generosity. For more pictures about our parties you may check out my Facebook page.
Blessings and love,
The Harbor & Alex
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I stopped my last blog entry on going to aunt Marina's house to celebrate the New Year. I left the house around 10 p.m. on Dec. 31, 2008 and took time getting to her house because earlier she and uncle Misha went to aunt Marina's mom apt. to celebrate the New Year. Aunt Marina's mom is 96 years old and due to her age she is limited in walking. Her mom's name is Anna and she is the survivor of 900 days of siege during the World War II. She is a wonderful woman who speaks Russian and English, which is very impressive.

On my way to aunt Marina's house I saw very little people on the streets, but heard tons of fireworks. Some of them were very loud. Some folks did not even bother going outside to shoot the fireworks so they simply did them from the balcony and you could see sparks going all over falling on down. The metro was empty so it is the best time to use public transportation especially when some stations in St. Pete serve more than 3 million passengers daily. I have arrived to aunt's house and the table was served beautifully with a lot of delicious Russian cuisines. There were only three of us. Typically people begin to celebrate the New Year around 11:40 p.m. We sit around the table and say goodbye to the current year. At 11:55 p.m. the Russian president wishes Happy New Year to the country and people raise champagne glasses and exchange toasts. At 12:30 a.m. we call different people to wish them Happy New Year. I called probably 20 different families some were home and others were not. Around 2 a.m. uncle Misha went to bed because he was tired and mainly it is due to his age. Thus, there were two of us. We watched TV, ate food, talked and laughed. It was fun. Then around 5 a.m. we went to bed. I got up at 9:30 a.m. & went home. In the afternoon I went to Lisa's house to wish them Happy New Year. I hope that your New Year was fun and exciting.

Now I would like to share how 2008 Harbor Christmas party with the graduates went. In the morning I arrived to the place where party was hosted. I had to cook the meal, but one of our mentors had to bring gifts and food. Due to traffic I end up waiting for over two hours. While I was waiting I fell asleep on the couch and when I woke up I twisted my foot because it was numb. Thank the Lord it was not that bad. Tatiana-Harbor assistant director and Tanya-Harbor graduate decorated the place and wrapped gifts meanwhile I was preparing the dinner alone for 35 people. Around 4 p.m. Nadia and Vanya our graduates came and Vanya was helping me around the kitchen. He was peeling tons of potatoes for Cheesy Scalloped Potatoes dish. He said, "I have never had to peel so many potatoes." By 6 p.m. the food was ready and it turned out really nice. Our graduates began to arrive around 6 p.m. and by 6:30 p.m. most of them were there. Natasha our psychologist hosted different games. One game was to light a match and say as much as you can about yourself and your friends while it was lit. Our graduates had a blast and here are some pics that have captured the moment.



After playing games Masha our mentor lead praise and worship. I was watching our graduates and was little bit saddened because they were not singing. I almost felt as if they did not care. I realize it is not the case, but as you know not all of them are Christians so it makes sense why they were not signing. Ivan our pastor shared a powerful Christmas message. I pray that it will stay in their hearts for a long time and stir other hearts especially those who still have not made the commitment. Then we had a meal and it was fun because they were hungry and ate with great appetite. It is always a pleasure to feed hungry people who appreciate your hard cooking. Many gave me comments nice chef Krutov. We had some leftovers and gave them to our grads.
At the end of our meal we dressed Vadim our mentor as Santa Clause. He brought gifts to our grads. In order for each graduate to receive a gift he or she had to recite a poem, story, song, or simply dance or do some acrobatic moves. It was a lot of fun. I will let pictures speak for themselves.






Now Russia has ten days of vacation. All federal jobs and offices are closed. People are relaxing, eating, shopping, drinking and chilling. The weather has gotten much colder than it was the first month. Now the temp is 5 F, but you always need to take windchill factor in St. Pete due to water that surrounds the city so in reality the temp is -6 F. Yes, it is cold, but at least sunny and blue sky. What a joy because the winter in Russia is at least six months and in St. Pete you do not see blue sky and sun during that time and sometimes even longer. Thus, depression is huge in St. Pete because it is always dark and cold. Who would have thought that I would be thanking the Lord for -6 F especially because I do not like cold, but I thank the Lord for blue sky and sunshine.

I will write more later. Much love to you all.

In Him, Alex